Monthly Archive: October 2014


Oct 06

Guest Post: Sex – When a Women doesn’t want it and Conflict Solutions

Here is a great Guest Post on the topic we have been covering from Lovers for Life: Strengthening and Preserving Your Marriagewritten by the Penners, published by Christian Publications, Inc.   With permission, we have reproduced it as a Guest Post.

“I have already gotten settled in bed, wearing my flannel nightgown and reading my book. Now that you’re in male female tug of warthe mood, I’m not sure I want to go to all the trouble… (A paraphrase of Song of Songs 5:3, 6)


Oct 13

Conflict Solutions Presents Dr. Harriet Lerner, Dance of Connection

Book: Dance of Connection

Book: Dance of ConnectionAs we continue the theme of resolving Conflicts between the sexes, an interesting book was recommended to me called ‘The Dance of Connection’ by Dr. Harriet Lerner.  His main aim to set out how to talk with someone when you are mad, hurt, scared, frustrated, insulted, betrayed or desperate.

Here is an excellent review by Donald Mitchell:

I’m a therapist, and like therapists around the country, I recommend Dr Lerner’s books to my clients, especially ‘The Dance of Anger’.  To be honest, I thought she had said it all, but to my surprise, she really outdid herself in this book. No one can afford to miss this one.