Category Archive: Guest Posts


Jul 10

Conflict Solutions presents a worksheet on the book ‘Love & Respect’

Recently a great friend shared her notes from Dr. Emerson Eggerichs and his Love and Respectwife Sarah’s book Love and Respect.  Here is a practical worksheet to remember what the book explains.


“C-O-U-P-L-E” is code for what she needs!

ClosenessAm I always remembering to mover toward her and accept her need to talk and connect with me to be reassured of my love?

Openness Do I share my thoughts with her, and am I sure I’m not resisting her efforts to draw me out? Understanding – Am I careful not to try to “fix” her every time she talks about one of her concerns or problems? Am I remembering that she is an integrated personality and whatever happens affects all of her, especially her emotions?


May 22

6/34 Conflict Solutions looks at how to Establish Intimacy in Relationships

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Conflict Solutions presents a Guest Post by Daniel Fengler, Counsellor for over 20 Daniel (2)years.  Here is some of his comments about building relationships, especially the one you want to lead into marriage.

“If I wanted to become friends with someone, how would I go about it?

  1. Gather information about the person

If I didn’t know them at all, I would gather some information about them from others.  I would poke around and ask mutual acquaintances some questions.  “Hey, Fred, what do you know about Jackie?  I think she is ******!”